She asked how much protein was in tea.
After class I went over her diet worksheet in more detail, which was fairly quick work because it only had a few pieces of bread and a few cups of tea on it. This was for a whole week!
Turns out she and her husband lived in a ger with about seven other family members and she got the short end of the stick.
This is very common in Mongolia. Mom often takes the last place. For example, if I were feeding the family, I would serve my husband first--a big bowl of food. I would divide the rest among the children. Whatever was left and not eaten would be my portion.
I went home from that class with my spirit in turmoil. How could I in good conscience teach these ladies to eat properly when there wasn't proper food to eat? How could something like $40 a month be the reason a baby is born weak, sickly, and unable to thrive? How could something as small as $10 a week be the reason a mother might die in childbirth?
"Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, "Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed," but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead." James 2:15-17
From that day on we started feeding pregnant and nursing women. We call it Mother-To-Mother. The mom comes once a week. She is given groceries (protein sources, vitamin C sources, whole grains, milk and eggs), prenatal vitamins, and basic prenatal care (blood pressure check, protein, blood sugar, weight). Often if a mother is not properly documented (which is often the case with the poor), they cannot see a doctor. So, they go without prenatal care. It's a system that leaves many without the care they need. This is our way of filling that gap.
(Mugi participated in our program from the middle of her pregnancy until 6 weeks postpartum. Her baby was beautiful and healthy and a marvel to the doctors who said she would be sickly.)
When we left Mongolia in 2004, we moved Mother-To-Mother from the capital city, to Darhan (a city, although more rural). It is lovingly administrated by Ginny Kocke. She is a mother to mothers. No pregnant woman is ever turned away.
If you would like to be a part of this work, we welcome you! You can contribute financially to the address below. You can also send supplies. We are always in need of prenatal vitamins, cloth diapers, maternity clothes, and baby clothes.

